Integrity: Stand Up or Get Out

Everyday, as people, we are presented with challenges.  These challenges can attack us physically, mentally, and even spiritually.  The ways in which we react to these challenges speak volumes about our character and our pride.

Anyone who trains hard in the martial arts knows what it means to be challenged physically.Some think that training technique is the most essential aspect of training and hours should be spent practicing the same maneuver in every possible form.  I love these people.  Others think that  the best way to train is through ridiculously high stress work outs that push you to the physical limit of your abilities.  And I love these people too.  The point I am trying to make is that we may not all agree on the method of training that works best for us, as individuals, but we can certainly agree that the method that works best for one may not work best for another.

Mentally, we challenge ourselves.  We are the ones who create our internal world.  We take our feelings and swallow them selfishly and then use them to protect ourselves or for our own selfish gain.  Feelings can be our greatest strength or our greatest weakness.  Someone once said that holding on to anger is like holding on to a hot coal with the intent of throwing it.  You are the one who gets burned.  But, by holding on to anger we can also grow.  Anger can help teach us about ourselves and fuel our ambition to be better and stronger.  It can be transformed into other feelings.  Joy, passion, or even envy.  To fear an emotion is to fear the self.

And finally, we are challenged spiritually.  Spirit can be a term that is open to interpretation.  For me, it stands for the ideals that I follow in this world.  Ideals such as honor, integrity, and hope.  It is our follow through with these ideals that shows we are not mere animals who survive for our own selfish ends.  My ultimate fear is that we become a world of hedonists.  Face booking away our lives while we waste away and never truly develop any sense of who we really are.  We like this, we dislike that, and relationships fade away into a puddle of internet memes and high ideals that are passed around as internet postcards.

Some of us are already challenging ourselves on a daily basis and to me that is extraordinary.  Others feel overwhelmed and that is something I can understand.  We cannot just give in to being overwhelmed, however.  High degrees of stress can be the turning points on which we transform ourselves from the ordinary to the extraordinary.  We may relive old challenges on a daily basis, just to prove we can.  We may suffer, but that suffering can lead to incredible levels of growth and understanding about who we are and who we need to be.  Be a time traveler in your own mind.  Remember your deepest, blackest, loneliest nights and think deeply on them.  Feel them out.  Imagine to your fullest content and recreate that kind of darkness.  And then conquer it.

Conquering that kind evil helps create an inner strength that is impossible to see with the naked eye.  Any cut you receive won’t seem so deep.  Any lie you hear won’t sting quite the same way.  And anyone who stands up to challenge what you think is right will be immediately challenged in turn.  That level of integrity cannot be bought or sold to anyone because it will be part of who you are.  It will flow through you like water to nourish you when you are ill, and it will consume you like fire when the need to fight arises.  This is why we challenge ourselves.  To prove we are alive.

 

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Rebuilding Discipline

BRRRRRRNG.  BRRRRRRNG.  BRRRRRRNG.  The alarm blares at you in an unforgiving manner.  It’s six in the morning.  Again.  You curse softly to yourself.  It’s been three weeks since you promised you’d start a new workout routine.  You had to, after all.  At least, that’s what you told yourself three weeks ago.  Lately you’ve been feeling a bit round about the edges.  I mean, let’s face it.  You’re not twenty anymore.   You’re somewhat satisfied with how you look, but you know you could look AND feel better if you just put a little effort into it.  So you made a promise to yourself that things would change.  Diet, exercise, it didn’t matter.  You decided you’d do whatever it took.  Unfortunately, it was a promise you just couldn’t keep.  You roll over, tap the SNOOZE on your alarm, and resolve to make it up at tomorrow’s workout.  If tomorrow ever comes.

 

It is impossible to not be able to relate to this type of experience.  We have all set goals in the past.  We may wish to establish a new exercise routine, meet new quotas at work, or possibly spend more time with our family and friends.  The specific goal is not particularly relevant.  What matters is that we all have made a choice at one point or another to carry out a specific desire.  We work towards that desire on a daily basis and push ourselves to meet our own expectations.  And then something happens.  No matter how hard we try, life always seems to get in the way.  You may become sick.  You may become injured.  You’re family may develop new problems that prevent you from achieving your goal.  These problems make us falter on the path towards our inner desires.  Eventually, we will find ourselves back where we started or even further away from our goals.

 

So how do we ensure that we will accomplish our goals?  One path is to cultivate an extraordinary level of discipline.  I say level because I do believe that discipline is something quantifiable.  It can be strengthened just like a muscle, and it can be weakened just as easily through inactivity.  Let us define discipline as the choice to do something in any particular moment whether or not you actually want to.  For example, if you have a strong desire to go eat a giant slice of cake, but you are on a diet, then your choice in this moment to not eat that cake is you exercising your discipline muscle.

 

Sounds easy, doesn’t it?  This is where it gets interesting.  It doesn’t take a lot to build up your discipline muscle.  All you have to do is take a couple of things throughout the day that you normally would always want to do, and choose not to do them.  Obviously I am speaking more of hedonistic, low reward activities.  I don’t want you to skip your morning run when you’ve finally starting feeling good every time you do it.  Choose something simple like eating dessert.  You know you want to eat a whole bowl of ice cream, so instead eat half.  It is small changes like this that will change the amount of control you have over your daily life.

 

The hard part is that this needs to be a daily routine.  You must, on a daily basis, choose not to do things you normally want to, and choose to do things you normally would not want to do.  The key is that you are exercising your discipline muscle daily.  Choose to wake up five minutes earlier just to prove you can.  Choose to skip the giant Bacon Cheeseburger for lunch and instead eat a chicken salad.  By making little choices like this on a daily basis you will break the control simple pleasures have over your life and develop a lasting feeling of freedom in everything you do.  And then the next time that alarm goes off, you won’t find yourself lying in bed daydreaming about that SNOOZE button.  You’ll already be out the door and heading for the gym.

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5th Annual Liam’s Fund Kickathon!

The origins of the WCMAA Kickathon originated with the AVID Walkathon.  The AVID Walkathon began in April, 2005, in honor of our classmate Christina Tajyar, who had 6 brain surgeries due to her diagnosis of Arteriovenus Malformation.  I have to be honest, I barely remember how it started.  I want to say we were just figuring something to do for our Senior Project, but it sounded like a great opportunity to help someone and actually see the benefits.  Call me selfish, but when I help someone, I want to see the difference it makes.  So we started a fundraiser to see if we could raise a bit of extra money for the Liam’s Fund.  We orchestrated an event to take place on the Mount Carmel track, and pushed everyone into it to the best of our ability.  We wanted to make a difference and support other kids who needed brain surgery, due to similar illnesses, in hopes to brighten their future.

Can you imagine having to go through brain surgery?  That was my first thought.  To have to endure something like that would take an incredible amount of strength and support from everyone around you.  I have had minor surgeries, and even then one of the scariest things I have had to do in my life is walk down that hall, not knowing exactly what was going to happen to me.  That is when I heard the story about Liam Gutierrez, who endured more brain surgeries than I ever thought possible. To this day Liam has had over 80 brain surgeries. When I heard that more sophisticated equipment would reduce the number of surgeries some of these kids have to endure, I was ready to sign up full force. When Hank and I started our own business we knew we wanted to use the extra publicity somehow, and the Liam’s fund just seemed like the perfect charity to continue aiding.

Medical equipment can be expensive.  I have an emergency room bill from flipping off a trampoline that shows it(over $36,000).  Do not let this discourage you from contributing!  Even a couple of extra dollars helps. A scalpel that you were able to buy for someone who needs it can make just as much difference as that fifteen thousand dollar machine.

So how can you help the Liam’s Fund today?  Simply donate to our kickathon page below!  You can sponsor the school directly or one of our students who is going to be kicking. It’s a great opportunity to help someone learn the importance of raising money for causes they find important.

The date of the Kickathon is currently scheduled for June 2nd, from 1-2pm.  If you would like to drop by and support the students you are more than welcome!

Donate here!

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Breaking a Brick in Life

On rare occasion I have spoken with someone outside of the school about the complexities of breaking a brick. Typically, anyone who shares their interest in the martial arts to a martial arts “enthusiast” can expect the question, “Can you break a brick or a board?” I used to resent this question. Of all the benefits the philosophy of the martial arts gives you, both physical and spiritual, why ask such a silly question? I used to be of the mentality that breaking anything was akin to a cheap parlor trick, like a carnival game. The man at the carnival makes the game look easy, meanwhile he collects hundreds from poor suckers mistaking the carnival man’s experience for intelligence.  Feeling the need to prove themselves they make a pitiful attempt at “one up manship.”  I have since learned that there is a trick to any type of breaking, but it has its benefits on the mind the same as any training method the martial arts has.  Obviously my respect for the art of breaking has grown tremendously in the past few years.

This is not a long winded tangent about the magical art of breaking, the different types of breaking and how cool it is for demonstrations. Please do not misunderstand, I seriously enjoy attempting different breaks, despite the risk involved, and can see its benefits to my martial arts training in the physical sense.  Despite these benefits I will elaborate on later, I would prefer to discuss the philosophy one can learn from breaking a brick in the martial arts in destroying mental barriers.

For most people, you can use the brick as a metaphor for any problem in your life that you have struggled with. The brick lies there, staring back at you, unmoving. You, unshaken by the weight the brick has on your mind, attempt to crash through it. Most people undoubtedly fail in their first attempt(I know I did), this is not surprising.  Just as you may miss a detail in your conflict resolution at work, or forget to study a chapter for the test, you make mistakes and must learn from them.  The beautiful thing about breaking is you receive instant feedback, which makes learning your lesson much faster than waiting to see if your actions were correct  When you strike the brick and your hand feels immediate pain and swells up like a balloon, you have acquired a great deal of information about breaking technique.   Perseverance is a powerful trait one can hone and sharpen through consistent failure.  You can definitely cultivate perseverance breaking because IT HURTS WHEN YOU MAKE MISTAKES, you know exactly what to change and can typically try again immediately .  This is a popular belief for some styles of breaking, you don’t leave until you do the break.  Imagine if we all adopted this philosophy to great challenges in our life, where we do not leave until it is resolved or a plan of action is created.  Attacking your problems like one does a brick in this way can make life more fulfilling and less fearful.

Technique is important in a brick break.  The amount of force you use to go through the brick is the same as the amount of effort you throw at a problem.  You can have poor technique, smash the wrong part of your hand, and still smash through the brick(I have and do not recommend this).  By throwing excessive force around, and with little technique, you can smash that thing and your hand to bits.  Try to come at your problems with a bit of understanding of the situation, some skill.  Study and refine, do not just jump into a colossal problem eager to make colossal mistakes.  A bit of study can save you a lot of energy and prevent a great deal of unnecessary damage to you.  Learn how to come at the slab with a sophisticated approach that limits your chances of injury and your odds of victory are even greater.  Once you have found the correct amount of force and the right approach, you will slice through your concrete problem like butter.  You’ll also find that this big problem of yours five years from now will seem like nothing.

Lastly, just like all life problems, your progress with be swift with the aid of a good teacher(emphasis on the good).  “Sifu” means the one who has walked the path before you (but hey an Italian told me that so if any Chinese people want to clarify, email me).  Ever have someone give you good advice because they knew where you were coming from and what you were trying to accomplish?  These people can tell you what you’re doing wrong, amend your errors in judgement, and in five minutes do what would have taken you five weeks.  Learning from their philosophy and having them in your back pocket makes your challenges much simpler.  Please do not be foolish and think that you can’t learn something from everyone.  Just as I can train people in martial arts who have gone through years of medical training, I just as easily learn from my four year old niece how to enjoy a piece of pizza when life’s problems make me forget such wisdom.  You can learn from everyone, and almost anywhere when you open your eyes and pay attention.  Avoid thinking that the answers are not out there just because you can’t find them right in front of you.  If you have a problem and you haven’t picked up a book, attended a class or found a teacher to help you out, I can guess how much action you have taken on solving it, typically zero.

Now the brick metaphor does not apply to every problem in every way, but it’s pretty darn close.  My current problem is my Applied Statistics class, I have a mental barrier when it comes to math.  As soon as I stop talking myself out of studying (the brick in my case) I will be much better off.  So, take the five minutes and ask yourself, “what brick is stopping me in life today from taking that next step in my personal development?”

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The Blog Is Now Linked

The Blog is now linked to the main West Coast Martial Arts Page… Hooray!

This is only a test of the WCMAA broadcasting system.

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Guro Mario Gajo

Guro Mario Gajo is now offering private lessons at the 4S Ranch/ RB West Coast Martial Arts Academy. Guro Mario specializes in stick and knife fighting, but he has expterise in Black Tiger Muay Thai and a number of other different styles. If you are interested in taking lessons with Guro Mario please contact us at (858) 451-KICK.

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Kung Fu Class 3-20-12

Amazing class run by Eric Montgomery.  The main style that is focused on is Fu Jow Pai (Hark Fu Moon) or Black Tiger Claw Kung Fu.  It is taught along with some influence from other martial arts styles.

Kung Fu Class

Kung Fu Class

 

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Zumba Class Times

Zumba classes take place everyone Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday from 9:30Am – 10:30AM.  The class is taught by Patricia Walker who has many years of experience teaching the class.  Come in and try a class today!

 

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Parkour Class Schedule and Information

Parkour Classes:  Learn basics such as the dash vault, kong, speed vault, thiefing, russian roll to more advanced movements like side flips, back flips, and many, many more.

Classes are Saturdays from 2 – 3PM.  Recent additions to the class include a rail and trampoline to practice flips!

 

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Stickfighting, and Filipino Martial Arts Schedule

Classes are scheduled Tuesday and Thursday Nights from 8:00PM – 10PM with Guro Mario Gajo.  Expect a good workout!

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Understanding Techniques

As martial artists, it is our primary objective to take in any number of techniques and be able to integrate them fluidly into our own individual fighting style.  This can be a long and involved process depending on the movement being practiced and the student’s training level.

Generally speaking, the art of learning a technique and then applying it can take many different paths.  First and foremost, however, a technique must be understood completely.  The technique understanding phase involves a student analyzing a technique and understanding what is going on relative to themselves and the opponent.  For example, one of our most basic techniques, white belt jujitsu (double wrist hand grab), involves many different intricate steps.  First, the student must step backwards and shift their weight onto their back leg without leaning forward.  If the student leans forward then all of their weight will shift forward and they will be off balance.

If we are off balance when trying to defend ourselves then we are in a very disadvantageous position.  We can therefore see how white belt jujitsu teaches us to not only escape a double wrist grab, but to maintain a balanced position while doing so.  The goal should not be to just learn to be balanced in white belt jujitsu, but to apply that concept of balance in all techniques.  Following this idea, we can see how it is important clearly understand the intricacies of all our techniques to see when a concept best applies.  This can be done best through a slow rate of technique repetition.  Practicing techniques over and over at a slow pace will help us digest the movements much more easily than doing them as quickly as possible.  The quickest pitfall when learning techniques is to try and do everything too fast, too soon without actually grasping what we are learning.

The next time you drill a technique focus on the concepts being taught in the technique instead of just the movements themselves.  Anyone can regurgitate martial arts movements, but to take conceptual knowledge and apply it directly and indirectly in other techniques will help you reach a new level in training.

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Congratulations to all Tournament Participants and Winners

A big thank you to all our tournament participants and winner.  Everyone had a lot of fun and we had an amazing turnout.  Special thanks to Master Giuseppe, Sigung Bradford, and Fenton Fong Eng.   We had an HUGE turnout which is what we expect from our amazing and dedicated students.  Keep up the good work and look forward to the next one!

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WCMAA Blog

Our new blog is now online! This will be THE place to check for all of the latest news, announcements, and educational tidbits so be sure to check back often!

If you have any comments, suggestions, or requests for things that you would like to see here, please feel free to Let us know!

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WCMAA Tournament March 17th

The WCMAA Tournament for Spring 2012 will be held on March 17th at the Rancho Bernardo location. 10890-B Thornmint Road San Diego, CA 92127 (858) 451-KICK (5425)

The events are as follows:

8 am sharp to 9 am : all levels self defense 9 am sharp to 10 am : forms 10am sharp to 10:30 : all weapons 10:30 to 11:30 : sparring all levels 11:30 to 12noon : prepare for demo 12 noon sharp : demo until 12:30

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